In our 30s, sometimes sex can go by the wayside even if we didn’t intend it to. Kids, work, school, errands, sleep, bills, stress, cleaning, pets, just to name a few things that can get in the way of your libido. It is nice to not have to think too hard when trying to get hot, but it is even nicer to have a list of some helpful hints to get you there.
Here are a few of the 20 tips to have a hotter sex life tonight from iVillage:
Act on your mood:
“My problem was that even if I was in the mood and my husband was at work, I would more than likely be exhausted by the time he came home. So I figured out a plan. Every time I get into the mood, I would put a blind fold or something suggestive under his pillow. Even if I am too exhausted to initiate later, he gets the message.
Surprise him….and you:
Just because it isn’t something you would’t normally do, doesn’t mean it can’t be sexy and start something good. “I flashed my husband when he got home from work….enough said right?”
Appeal to all his senses:
“I have been known to put cinnamon on a cookie sheet and put it in the oven at 350 degrees to smell up the whole house. It usually puts my husband in a good mood and cinnamon is known to turn men on!”
Check out the rest of the tips from iVillage here.