After being romantically together for a while, you’ve finally decided to pop that life-changing question to your partner—the marriage proposal. The idea of asking for your partner’s ‘Yes’ in spending the rest of your life together can be nerve-wracking and simply overwhelming. Plenty of questions may be running through your mind such as:
‘Will they say yes?’
‘Is this the right time to propose?’
‘What if they say no?’
‘How can I make it unforgettable and extra special?’
All these thoughts and questions may leave you feeling pressured and ultimately hinder you from properly brainstorming for your planned wedding proposal. After all, coming up with unique ideas in asking that one question can be challenging.
Fortunately, the list below will keep you on track about the essential things to consider in planning your upcoming proposal.
Whether you’re planning to pop that 1 carat diamond ring in a public or intimate wedding proposal, here are five things you need to consider when planning a surprise marriage proposal and make this magical moment unforgettable for you both:
1. Be Selective On Your Proposal’s Sparkling Highlight
The highlight of every marriage proposal is that little sparkly thing you pull out once you get down on one knee, and that’s your engagement ring. Before jumping right ahead with wedding proposal details, you need to figure out your engagement ring first. Some people mistakenly assume that their partners want to have that big, fat engagement ring in front of them when asked for marriage. But the truth is, each person has a different taste when it comes to their engagement ring.
When choosing your engagement ring, make sure to consider your partner’s taste in jewelry. Is your partner fond of wearing eye-catching jewelry, or are they the lowkey type of person when wearing accessories? It might also help if you check out their jewelry box at home and see if they’re fond of heart rings, oval rings, or round rings. For example, finding most of their rings in oval shapes may give you a clue to browse for more oval engagement rings. After all, one of the best surprises you can get for your future fiancé is getting them an engagement ring that perfectly suits their personal taste.
2. Pick Your Wedding Proposal’s Future Landmark
After figuring out your engagement ring, it’s time to choose your proposal’s location. Keep in mind that after the proposal, that specific location will soon bear a significant meaning for you both. Here are two ways you can pick a spot—public or private. Before choosing a location, you need to analyze first if your partner is fine with the idea of your wedding proposal being done in a public area or the other way around. Be aware that while having a large crowd can be cute and all, it can also be mortifying and add pressure to the person being asked for marriage.
To help you figure this part out, you can casually start a conversation with your partner about a wedding movie or your best friend getting engaged. Then, find your way into inserting the subject about how they’d want their wedding proposal to happen. Whatever their answer is, it’ll give you an idea of how and where you can pop the question.
3. Don’t Forget The Photographer
With social media on the rise, everyone wants to have every moment of their lives documented and shared in the public, and that includes your planned wedding proposal. Sure, you can both take selfies with the engagement ring after the proposal. But wouldn’t it be nice if you have a professional photographer capture the exact moment you knelt with your heartfelt emotions and your partner’s real-time reaction?
Plus, these photographers know how to take pictures with the right angle, lighting, and perfect positions showing both of your faces during the moment. So, don’t forget to consider and invest in pro photography.
4. Incorporate Music
While having a background music isn’t necessary during a wedding proposal, having one can make the moment more romantic and emotional. If you and your partner have a specific song that’s meaningful for you both, you may want to consider using it as a background and even slow-dance to it after your partner said yes. Having a romantic tune playing can surely elevate your wedding proposal’s unforgettable experience.
5. Ask Your Partner’s Parents For Blessings
Finally, nothing beats a wedding proposal that has been blessed by your partner’s parents. Talking to their parents first and even involving them in planning can be one of the sweetest and most chivalrous things you can do for your partner. This gesture only shows how respectful you are of their parents and how they also mean so much to you. After a meaningful talk with them, you can invite them to witness your planned wedding proposal and be there during the engagement celebration.
Propose From The Heart
Now that you know the essential things to consider, it’s time to pull off your most awaited wedding proposal. Whatever plans you have, make sure you propose from the heart. You don’t need to write a speech and memorize word for word. All you have to do is kneel, show the ring, and speak with all your heart while locking your eyes to your partner’s. After all, it’s the real emotions that make the whole moment more unforgettable.